Hello:
Some Back ground. I really need some advice here.

Divorced my third wife, a VERY Hot and Horny Filipino.
Dressed like a hooker and wanted sex 3-4 times a day.
Sex was perfect - everything else was hell.

I started going to TJ again in Feb of this year.
Did about 50 girls so far.
Some times, 2 or 3 in a short time.

This staretd a few months ago...
I'm hard as a rock, and as soon as I stick it in, it gets soft.
This happens with new girls as well as old favorites.
I don't get it.??
I only do girls that I "Like" and that are very hot to me.

Lately I expect this to happen, so it does.
I still have fun, I go with plenty of dental dams and I have a great time eating, licking etc, but no happy ending.
This is not a physical problem - it is mental.
I don't understand it.
It is ruining my Monger Experiencs

Any suggestions are helpful!!

I understand you have no problem getting hard but bear with me on this. Have you tried using viagra, levitra or cialis? If no, I would recommend taking a tab of viagra (not some knock-off, but the real thing) about 30 minutes to an hour before having sex. Particularly when you first start using the stuff it would make it rather difficult not to stay hard during sex and would also break the expectation that you are going to go soft. Perhaps having this boost would relieve you of the mental factors that are getting in your way. And once you re-establish your routine using viagra as a "facilitator", perhaps you will be more relaxed and can then wean yourself back off the viagra (or not, depending on how you feel at that point).

Just a thought.

Whens the last time you had a physical and blood work. What your describing is not traditional ED per se (doesnt mean that its not). There are actually a lot of conditions that will mirror ED to a degree, could be ED or a mental factor as per above...but if you havent had a once over from a good doc in a couple of years I'd consider it.

Dr. Hunterman prescribes Viagra, taken as Laguy suggests. You are describing a psychological effect resulting from your recent divorce. Vitamin V will override the sabotage your subconscious is wreaking on you, it may even make you hard with little or no physical or visual stimulation--just knowing what will soon be happening.

Knowing that your recent ex is getting banged by a virile monger will also help your psychological recovery. I'll volunteer for that duty, she sounds like just my type.

First question to ask:

Are you still getting morning woods? If yes your problems have are very much more likely mental than physical. Stress?

The advise provided above just may do the trick.

If you used to get regular morning woods and you no longer do than you do need a good physical: check blood sugar, blood pressure, hormone levels...etc. Smoking? Quit.

The way you describe it sounds like it was not a progressive thing but more 'sudden'...which again would point to a more psychological cause.

I think it is all mental. If I want to go on fucking for an hour, and have to hold back, not to come, I think about a football game to have my mind somewhere else. On the other side, if you are rock hard, and then get soft when you stick it in, think of the opposite..and have a porn or your favorite movie star in you mind. Chances are, you will do OK. I can see your routine to fulfill obligations with your hot ex wife erroding your spak plugs a little. Of course, if you drink, or are a heavy smoker...that is another matter.