Posted by XMan on September 15, 2000 at 12:51:31:
In Reply to: Re: How many vidas do you have left? posted by otra_vida on September 13, 2000 at 11:41:29:
| Senor Otra Vida, I certainly have nothing against you or anybody else in TJ. My homies are exactly that, buds from home. We have total trust (most the time anyway. lol) and have only let chicas into our circle, generally speaking. Of course, the chicas are why we go in the first place. I figure I can get drunk at home, if I want to do that. Have we met? I doubt it if you're a day timer. Who knows? As far as sharing what others have caught down there, it wouldn't be right for me to violate that trust. I can share that I know one dude who did catch genital warts, one of those STDs that can be had WHILE WEARING A CONDOM. If you're not married, you're lucky, cause it would be a REAL BUMMER to take that lifetime momento home and give it to your unsuspecting wife. I guarantee you that there are dudes that go down there with the kind of STDs that can be caught while wearing a condom (skin to skin shit like asymptomatic Syphilis, molluscum, warts, yeast infections, etc...). I just read that post by Shy Guy under Executive Massage (sounds like a good place!) and it was a trip that so many chicas tested positive for Chlymidia seven years ago. That just goes to show you how many chicas bone dudes without a condom AND catch it which means that a lot of fucking was going on without condoms given the likely infection rate. I wonder what the risk is of catching AIDs down there. It may be low, but it's still a very real risk. I feel I've been lucky to have caught only molluscum. Like NC Snake said, it's probably the best one to catch because it will go away. Problem is, it is gonna stick around for six to nine months. If your addicted, are you going to lay off during that period, or fuck chicas, passing it on to them. That's some fucked up shit. Mt intention is not to "lecture", but to inform because so many dudes go down there thinking it is safe to fuck with a condom on. It's not, just safer than not wearing one. And Sacbee wants to take his wife down there. These chicas make their bread fuckin dudes. You know that they are fuckin dudes with STDs. It's gonna happin. I wonder how many chicas I fucked before knowing I even had Molluscum. That shit itches like a bitch, and then spreads because you itched! Your buds do not discuss STDs, because it's a mood killer. They're in TJ to party, not get depressed. This board should be about both things. Guys should be informed about what they are getting into. Now that I've said that, all kinds of dudes will comment on how they've been fuckin chicas down there for decades and not caught shit. I'm here to tell you that's a bunch of shit because I gaurantee you that YOU know dudes that have that won't admit it. Of course there will be lucky dudes. I'd like to be a fly on the wall in the TJ health office when the chicas are being checked for STDs. Now that would be some scary shit, I'd bet! They probably take their time off when they get herpes attacks, but it's highly contagious just prior to showing up on the skin for a time. Oh, boy. Have fun in TJ and don't worry about once you're there. The worrying should go on before you roll the dice. And if your friend have a death wish and want to fuck without a condom, there's NOTHING you can do about it. AND, they could be passing it on to other chicas because it takes up to six months for it to show up in a blood test. Not that's some fucked up shit!
: XMan, I just felt that your jab at the end had nothing to do with what we were talking about. That's all. Now regarding being cautious, I agree with you 100%. I keep my guard up and will "always go with my homies". The thing is, like I said before, I started going to the zona alone. I do not go with friends I knew before. Everyone I hang out with down there I met down there. Not on Redsnake, in San Diego, or anywhere else. : So who are my "homies"? Is it the zona norte employee that invites me to their house to meet their family, cooks for me etc... and asks for nothing? Or is it a monger I know only from a bar who seems only interested in plugging me for information about some chica they are lusting after? : "But how well do you really know these people, their true character?" Good point, but that goes for mongers as well. I am somewhat cautious with everyone I meet down there regardless of which side of the line they are from. : Santiago was just an example, nothing more. If you used to hang in HK we have probably crossed paths before. Have we met?? It's really too bad about HK. Seems to happen though in family business. Different family members have different ideas about how things should be run. This is totally unrelated but I think Santiago is very smart at work. While some waiters might see the possibility of gaining 50 cents by short changing someone, Santiago is smart enough to know honesty and friendly good service = people coming back again and again and asking for him by name. : "You asked, why do I go? You oughta know, I'm addicted!" Yep, me too! It is a powerful drug! If you have decided to wean yourself from it and you can, more power to you. Right now I go once maybe twice a week. (I used to go alot more than that!). I am OK with that now. In the future, who knows? If I still live in San Diego, am still not married, and want to limit my trips to less than once a week, I will probably just quit cold turkey. That's the only way I could handle it. : I was pretty sure that talking about always using a condom would generate an STD lecture. I only mentioned condoms because I have friends that do their best to get BB sessions and I don't want to see them die. I am in the faction of posters that would like to see BB activities heavily discouraged on this board and redsnake. I am well aware of the risks involved in various activities as I researched it pretty thoroughly before ever going. : I appreciate you being willing to post about getting molluscum. You say, "Some of my buddies haven't been so lucky." If that's true please post about it or ask them to! It would be the most valuable piece of info posted in a long time. No one I know will admit to catching anything more than crabs. I know someone has caught bad stuff but it seems to be the ultimate taboo subject here. If I ever do get something, I promise to post about it. El Gato's post was a real wake up call for many people on this board. Thank you again El Gato. : You say, "have you ever encountered a problem in the zona? I would place a bet that you have." : Again, no hard feelings.
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