Posted by Daytimer on September 18, 2000 at 19:33:57:
In Reply to: Stages of Monger Development posted by XMan on September 18, 2000 at 10:02:46:
| Great post Xman, and a good reply Matiz. I have gone through the stages the past 30 years. There have been two interuptions in those years of mongering called marriage. One time I stayed away from TJ for 5 years. At one time I thought I would never go back. But, when I was not getting the sex I wanted in my marriage I started to stray. I am single now and am hitting TJ more than ever. It took about 10 years for each of the stages. I am in the addiction stage now and am enjoying the girls more than I ever did in ways I never did before. I seldom do the trophy fucks anymore, though I enjoy looking at them. There are advantages and disadvantages to mongering. I have seen both sides of the ledger. I have fulfilled my sexual fantasy to a high level. I have had wonderful sex with incredible women. I have had crazy times most men can only dream about (multiple women for instance). I consider myself lucky. What a great life I have had! I was a shy person when I first started going to TJ, now I am bold. I get what I want sexually. I do not have trouble telling women what I want. I can easily get American girl friends because of my understanding of how to make myself happy and how to make a woman happy. I learned about myself by going to TJ. It could not have happened any other way. I have spent a small fortune in TJ. I think about that sometimes, but I look at it this way. I am going to be spending all of my money in connection with a woman anyway. When I was married I spent a fortune trying to keep them happy. I spent tens of thousands of dollars over a 14 year period on the last wife. So, I look at spending 10 grand a year on hookers in TJ as no big deal. At least I have good memories of most of my TJ experiences. I can not say the same for my marriages. I am very addicted to TJ now. At age 50 there is nothing more addictive than young girls. I am having sex that most men can only dream of. So in closing I have to say I love it and will probably never break the addiction. I have not been able to for 30 years, so why not keep going for at least another 30.
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