Posted by XMan on September 18, 2000 at 10:02:46:
| From the time you first hear about AB or CC to the time you feel you've had enough, for one reason or the other, there seem to be stages of monger development/evolvement. Not everybody goes through all of them, but everybody progresses in some way. After lurking on this board and fucking well over 50 chicas in the zona (some many times), I noticed that I definitely "evolved" in skill, shrewdness, ability to get a feel for the "vibe", and close the deal so that I was gettin some amazing shit in the room with some awesome babes. Sometimes my boyz from home slowed me down, but sometimes it worked to my advantage. These are just observations about what I've observed, read about, and experienced to some extent. Stage 1. This begins when you first hear about AB or maybe the CC. Your antennae go up, and the idea of TJ almost seems hardly possible, but worth checking out. I know could hardly wait to get down there. You also wonder about the sleaze factor, and are there really fine babes to be had for the price of a few lap dances? For me the risk of STDs didn't really enter the picture, I had to get me some. So you plan a trip. Stage 2. You get down there and check out AB or the CC and can't believe your eyes. Fuckin babes (and some just ok ones too, but I wasn't lookin at those!) everywhere! Cheap beer, and the chicas want to get to know and FUCK you. Fuckin awesome, dude! This stage can last for a long time cause it's great. Trophy fucks or less, it's still great to get awesome sex in a trippin place. The fuckin bomb, dude! Buddies, beer, women, sex...not bad for a trip south of the border. Many dudes stay in this phase for a LONG time. Easy to understand why. They just keep adding chicas to their list of been there, done that. Some of these dudes only do the trophys and get minimal service, but their minds are captured by the beauty. Some do the trophys and get the service. Some are just poor fucks just happy to get laid at all. Hence the term YMMV. Same merry go round, however. Stage 3. Where stage two was comprised of short sessions, now you start looking for longer time with the women. You also start lookin for more...better sex with full on frenching, consistent BBBJs, post sex talk and maybe a massage, or just partying with the chica, in her room or yours (usually yours). Maybe with one favorita, maybe with many chicas, you're still lookin for MORE. Some dudes look to get it for less, some pay for it, ya still want it. First you look in AB or the CC, and maybe you find it there. But you still want to see if the grass is greener so you brave the alley bars (especially HK) and Tropical maybe. Revo may even be on your menu. If you've got some game and you don't look like a 50 year old Goodyear Blimp (or even if you do), you may REALLY start gettin some at these places. The chicas are interested in hangin with you for you and your boyz. This can end up really interesting, and the soap opera has begun. Talk about the often mentioned girlfriend sex, most gfs don't do this much or get this nasty. Anything goes, man. Full on BB action is possible and goes on a lot in these situations. You may end up with a GF yourself, if you're not careful. Trips to Revo with the chicas, out to eat, whatever...I've done it all, and it felt great. The only problema is having to listen to the woman. Now that's some fucked up shit! lol Stage 4. In stage four, you find yourself gettin really caught up in this shit. It begins to dominate your life and plans revolve around trips south. You may even consider moving or getting an apartment in TJ. You can't wait for your next fix. You're hooked, baby. If only Mom could see you now! You can reexamine yourself and what you're doin down there, wake up and put shit in perspective, or just go deeper. Addiction is serious shit and you are, whether you like it or not, or whether you're willing to admit it or not. The shit can take years off your life, and I'm talkin just the lifestyle, not the drugs or STDs. You set limits finally because caught up and broke ain't no way to go thru life. Mongers experience different various levels, of course. Some dudes never get to this stage because they always keep it in perspective. Favoritas, gfs, even wives can grow out of this stage. From here...who knows? Stages can last a day or a decade, EVERYTHING depends on you. You may get unlucky in TJ during any stage...shaken down by cops, mugged by the rateros, ripped off by a chica, heartbroken by a chica, broke, lose your friends, get your ass kicked, you contracted one of the lifetime STDs, whatever... Anything can happen down there. The upside? A great fucking time, maybe a woman. The downside? You tell me. As always, good luck to you dudes. Budoka
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