Posted by Ritmo on October 25, 2000 at 21:58:15:
In Reply to: Re: SG's........they're all that! posted by El_Cabrio on October 25, 2000 at 20:32:01:
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Brother Cab, I hear ya, and appreciate your perspective, but my experience has been very different. I've only had a few SG experiences along the lines of what you indicate here, while the vast majority of these chicas I've been with have been a lot of fun. There are all sorts of things that affect the dynamic, I think--I tend to spend a significant amount of time trying to talk to the girl, joke around with her, get what info I can get from a 'street interview' of a few minutes, do at least some minimal amount of 'charming' while I'm deciding whether or not I like her enough to go lay down in a ratty, smelly 'bed' with her, and I practically MAKE them talk to me when we're in the room, then once I have seen her a few times (and if I can't get her to talk to me, I won't see her again), I will bring little trinkets like chocolate, gum, other jazz they like. I realize lots of guys don't have the energy, desire, or time to spend doing this, and prefer just getting to the business at hand w/out expending that extra energy, and my guess would be that their experiences are closer to what you describe. But many of the very best girls I've known in TJ have been SGs. |