Posted by strikeeagle on November 22, 2000 at 13:34:57:
In Reply to: Re: Introductions / Referals posted by Celtics on November 22, 2000 at 12:57:25:
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Celtics, I think you've hit the issue dead center. Our relationship with las chicas is NOT just a business relationship. Because of the service being rendered, there is some interpersonal value that enters into things. Couple this with the latin culture, and you can pretty much figure out how to deal with things. Honor is EVERYTHING in latin social culture. If you treat una chica as a puta, you dis-honor her. By 'refering' someone to her, you do just that. Think of this in the reverse vain as favoritas whom prefer that they don't see you go up with other chicas. You can go up, but just don't do it in front of her. Celtics points this out very well. In the bar, treat las chicas as ladies. Do this, and your 'problemas' will be reduced. Forget this, and potentially deal with the wrath of very pissed off chica.
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