Posted by Celtics on December 09, 2000 at 08:08:22:
In Reply to: Differences posted by RickFeliz on December 08, 2000 at 17:29:48:
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I would agree that it is better to take charge, but I view it more as leading the chica. When I approach ("taking charge"), I immediately ask questions designed to bring her out and try to get her to have a drink with me. This is where you can find out if she has a good attitude and will laugh at any attempts at humor...in other words, probe deeper (I mean mentally, although I'm amenable to a chica probing other areas as well!). Basically, what kind of vibe is there between us? Is she an experienced hustler, a newbie, is she sweet, pushy, etc... To me THIS is taking charge becasue I'm checking out her attitude with ME. I like to create the illusion of a non-business encounter, and if the chica is into it, she'll go with it. If it feels good, THEN fuck her! Works like a charm. Celtics
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