wyoguy, Nice post. Very useful case study. These are the key differences I noticed in your post between a winner and a loser - basically has to do with you taking charge versus being hustled. Losing experience: 1. "I waited for one to approach me." 2. "She wanted me to buy her a drink." 3. "...she then whispered in my ear "Much sucky, fuck for you." 4. "Once inside the room, this "fine" chica jacks the price up to $40 on me." I can appreciate someone not totally confident of what's happening YET, not wanting to cause trouble. When I was first going I probably would have done the same thing. However, this is the point to "cut your losses short." The guy in the oficina will give you credit for the room to use with someone else. Winning experience: 1. "I had to act." 2. "I had been watching one in particular for quite some time and I moved closer to her." 3. "...I got up the nerve to approach her..." 4. "I saw a striking beauty standing near the one I had been watching. I approached her instead." 5. "She told me her name was Amy..." 6. "...I broached the subject..." Very useful example of a winning approach. Welcome to the club. Regards, RickFeliz
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