It works both ways.

Posted by Rock on January 16, 2001 at 00:26:07:

In Reply to: I'm hoping this post posted by la_dulce_vida on January 15, 2001 at 20:56:44:

Occupations dealing with lots of emotions, people have different self defense mechanisms to survive, but those mechanisms aren't always 100% What am I talking about? Well, whether you are a paramedic, doctor, police officer or a fast food server, you to to work do your job. You just can't get emotionally involved with everyone you meet. You do your job and move on. That being said, many chicas go to work and go home. In between, some do get some emotional attachments to guys they see, because, yes they are female and will be more emotional about their feelings. They are for the most part, not robots, although we can all name a few that could be. Look at some of the posts of dudes here, they are chasing chicas in search of the Holy Grail, where they believe that they will be the one that a chica will fall in love with and have them rescue them from the Zone. As others have said, there are a few cases where the guy and the chica live happily ever after but many more stories where they don't. Some people are happy to have the same old sandwich, every day for lunch, for years. Others want a different sandwich, every time for lunch. LDV: Some might call it a mid life crisis-but I don't think so. Instead, I believe that you want something different from life and you want to be more emotionally involved. Walls are crumbling down and the inner self is starting to show. Everytime we wake up in the morning, it's a different day. We may go about our daily morning ritual but it's a new day, different from all the rest. Sooner or later, the same things we have always wanted may change. Some say that we may be creatures of habit, but sometimes we do have the need for change. So, it works both ways. There are the TJ Vets and the Zona vets and sometimes life has a way of just changing a bit. Sometimes a Chica will fall in love. Sometimes a gringo will fall in love. It happens. More than we know. If you stop and think, a chica gives up one of her most intimate moments with every guy she goes up with, up stairs. To preserve that intimatacy, she might not kiss, or let a guy eat her or...... so that when she is with the one, the truly one she loves, he gets to have her all. That is one way to keep sanity in a crazy world. That's what some of the mechanisms in the brains keeps us sane. We all do it, but mostly it's subconscious. We've all done and said things where we question ourselves, why that happened. The mind is a very complex and sometimes mysterious part of our body. Instead of taking the same path in life, we may take the road less traveled. Rock

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