Posted by la_dulce_vida on January 15, 2001 at 20:56:44:
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starts an interesting message thread. Maybe I'm crazy, but I don't think so. I'm 50, single, divorced for many years, and finding myself a bit bored with the bachelor life. Over the past few months I have been going to the zone a couple of times a week and have found myself developing a somewhat deep, perhaps illusionary, affection for a few of the older pros. I'm now confronted with the problem that although I love raw sex, I keep thinking that I want more substance and perhaps the true issue with prostitution is not the typical problems that folks say it causes (STDs, drugs, violence, etc.) but a more moral, emotional, problem caused by the fact that prostituted sex is devoid of sincere affection and caring, which is what I think we're all ultimately after. Now I know there are a bunch of macho guys out there thinking that I'm an incurable romantic and are going to respond in some "Marlboro Man" way, spare me, please. And what are the girls thinking? Women are much more emotional then men, especially Latinas. How can they handle intimate relationships with mongers. Every AB or CC pro worth her salt has a quiver of regulars that keep returning because they are emotionally attached. I know it affects them. I open up to them because that's what I want, but then I shut down at a certain point because I know that a real relationship is next to impossible for a million reasons, and they get pissed. It certainly gets beyond the realm of business and into the emotional realm. So they feel it, it must drive them crazy. It's truly a psychological maze. Like I said in the beginning, I'm hoping this post stimulates some discussion on the emotional aspect of mongering. |
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