Posted by LUVDOG on February 04, 2001 at 00:37:22:
In Reply to: Re: Is love possible, in the Zona posted by felixthecat78 on February 03, 2001 at 20:20:53:
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My personal response to your question is going to be yes with a lot of variables to look into prior letting that happen. "YOUR FIRST MISTAKE WAS HAVING A BABY WITH HER," Maybe a little premature. "SECOND MISTAKE WAS FALLING FOR A WORKING GIRL," Matter of opinion. "THIRD THING IS THE FACT YOU ASKED HER TO LEAVE HER WORK," Not bad ideas if you feel you really want her. Just be sure you fully understand what that will involve. There is a lot more to that than taking her out of that job and putting her up in a house somewhere. This is something that will need to be put into a plan of action. Not just a do it now type thing.
Regret is a bad thing. One should try to avoid doing things they will regret later. But hey everyone is human and with that comes regrets. Those regrets happen to working girls also. They also have regrets daily of what they have to do to support their families. Several of them acquire habits in order to try to hide from the shame. Other just go home at night and cry themselves to sleep with the though they have to get up and do it again on another day. Some have hopes of getting out of the business soon, while other have "accepted" the job and will ride it for as long as they can sell. Even with that, I doubt they are truly happy with themselves. Let me change that doubts to I know. One way the girls will cope with the shame of the job is to get someone special in their lives. Someone that can accept them as a person and maybe if things go well be their ticket to a new lifestyle. Some of the girls actually have enough pride to help someone that is trying to help them. Not all of them are out for a free ride. Some will not even want help in a bad situation. They view their whole life to date as a bad situation. Why add the complication of an additional person. Of course, some will ride you hard and put you away wet. However, what makes them any different from gold digging women here in the states? I have known women here that go to clubs every weekend just to pick up someone to be laid by. It really sucks because they are not even paid for it (lol). The only difference between a hooker and a ho ain't nothing but a fee. What a concept, I bet anyone could fall into that category. Before you dive into this head on, there are things you should know. Email AG for some answers. It is obvious that some people do not view the girls as normal people. People with feelings, emotions, and thoughts. It is a good thing there is a classification called opinion. I think it is close to the complaint about bad service category. Given time, I think about 40 percent of the people that visit the bars in TJ will come somewhere near falling in love. SEX has a way of doing that to people. I have been in the zone for 22 years now. Had houses in Mexico and know several of the girls personally from all those years. I have visited their homes away from TJ and the bars. I have had them at my house for fiestas. All of the girls I know have had someone from the states begging and pleading with them to be that "someone special" in their life. Some have accepted other have laughed. I have seen them drag themselves into the mud getting involved with drugs and cartel activity. I have seen them build mansions and have enough money to never have to work again in their lives. I have seen them laugh and I have seen them cry all fuckin nightlong. They are no different from any other girl someone would fall in love with. I think anyone that stays in the zone long enough will have it happen to them. Ya you may come back and slap yourself back to reality, but there will be no denying that it happened. After the first time, there will be more. There is no telling what "MISTAKES" will happen after that.
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