Posted by HornyMike on February 04, 2001 at 11:27:29:
In Reply to: Re: Is love possible, in the Zona posted by LUVDOG on February 04, 2001 at 00:37:22:
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Very sound analysis luvdog. I doubt the chicas that I go with are the "cry all night long" types. They seem pretty happy and content overall. Most have plans to move on at a certain point. I doubt I would be attracted to a girl who wanted nothing more in her life than to work the bars. Frankly, virtually all my repeat chicas are women I would be happy to spend a lot of time with, and would even view as potential marriage prospects if they quit the zona for good. I can't say I've never fantasized about it. I mean where else is a dude pushing 40 going to find a gorgeous young woman? For many of us, the chicas represent what we wish we could have really had when we were 20 or 25. We know it isn't real, but we're human and can't help flirting with fantasies and possibilities. I wouldn't scream if i woke up married to one of my chicas in the States. a lot of guys would say "well, she's going to go back to the life in a year.." Well remember she met you in a whore bar too. How does she know you're not going to go back to it too? Both have to be ready to make a big change and move on. You are right that many of the chicas are very fine people. Most are very emotionally strong types, stronger than me I would say. Again, I'm sure there are the other types too, but i probably would have little interest in going with a girl where there was 100% physical attraction and nothing more. I'm pretty much past that. If I don't think they're nice, I'd just rather pick someone else. The closest I suppose I've come to the emotional types are the chicas that approach you, chat amiably (and I always chat with them), and then invite you, but you refuse. The look of disappointment and injury in their faces sometimes makes me quite uncomfortable. I always try to have a handy excuse ready (I already went, I'm about to leave..). It is a rejection, and women, especially latin women, are not accustomed to receiving rejection. But if they weren't scoring at least some clients, they wouldn't be there. Yes, I suppose for many of them it is a daily humiliation, hustling for the dollar. But to answer the question, yes, I believe love is possible in the zona, but the hazards are inumerable. Love is a dangerous business under the best of circumstances. TP, if the girl is resisting the idea of giving up working at CC, she is not ready and may never be inclined to give up the life, and you need to move on. Some girls just work there because they can't resist the easy money, and all the men do not bother them. Others have psychological issues that hold them there. And still others are just really nice girls who don't mind the sex, love the money, are saving for an objective, and have plans to move on after a year or two. That last category is where the possibilities lie.
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