Posted by raiders on April 10, 2001 at 22:32:26:
In Reply to: Re: Great fun sex w/ no emotional feelings or a GFE? posted by Mana on April 10, 2001 at 08:49:36:
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Mana, I hope you read this message I may be able to save some serious shit that may go down later. Frist of all, contrats to crossing the line. Only few know how you felt, feel, and are feeling. Trust me on this, been there done that. The first mistake was that you were still attached when you met your favorites. What you should have done was clean slate the marriage so that you would not have any futher complications. That way before you even ever pondered the thought of going into TJ, you could have done it without any emotional and financial problems. Second, the fav you saw for seven years, wow, thats eons in a monger life. She must have been one hell of a girl yet remember, its a business, and another business man discovered 'your business' and chances are he took his business elsewhere and now she is living with this guy. Yes, reality can bite sometimes. You say you found this new chica in the zone and it was her first day, (they all say that, at least the young ones). You say she is one hot mamasita and now you are living at home with your parents yet you are supporting the new fav in an apartment in Baja and you see her on weekends and email her ever day yet for her to go back to the zone is a taboo situation for her? I hate to tell you this, the Zone might come to her! Meaning that regardless if you are rich, good looking, young, have a fantastic personality, the girl will still play the field, yet not as big of a field as before, yet she will still play. The only way to secure this relationship is to 24/7 the chica. Yes, thats live with her, heck, you don't have to marry her and you left your wife for her, make the commitment otherwise your investment will surely be taken advantage by another gentlemen. Throw the trust out of the window, it will not work, trust of this type needs to be working 24/7 in order for it to work. Yet if this situation both suits you and her needs, then by no means listen to me ;-). Yet, I can't tell her how many storys I have heard of the gringo supporting the chica only to find out that the bartendar and waiter were making routine visits to her new luxery apartment, and no, they weren't servering her drinks. Raiders. |
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