Wow. I just watched Charmane Starr at www.realitykings.com. Im not exactly certain her age, but I believe she is about 28-29 years old by now. Her first video was with Randy West back in 1999 just after she turned 18.

She was hot and slender back then and she is still the same right now after over 160 videos and who knows how many web appearances later. She has been banged so much in so many different ways, but her pussy looks as nice as it was back in 1998.

What is my point? Well, let me let you critique this scenario.

What if I went to the Phils and found a young filipina to bring home for marriage? 18-19 years old, around 85-90 lbs and exotic looking like charmane. I figure that she would be bangable for at least a good 15-20 years. I would be very picky and try to get one that is right at 18 years old.

I am aware of the obvious flaws behind this idea. Hehe. I know the lady might bolt out of here as soon as she makes it to the earth over here in the US.

My thinking is along these lines. Right now Im facing a bunch of different issues. Getting laid over here is not impossible for myself, but becomes more challenging with age. It would be so nice to have a regular each and every night without having to resort to the usual hit/miss ways of meeting people.

In addition, there is a daily grind that is associated with life and it wouldnt be bad to wake up each day having had a young woman bouncing on your dick the night before...

This would be an open marriage where I would be able to head out every once in a while to monger.

Does all this just sound good in theory or do you think there will be issues along the way?

Hmmmm....;) Let me hear your thoughts...

Will she shit little gold nuggets everyday too?

I think you should spend more times in Philippines, and then go to some other locations to see how you feel about things. Chances are after some more PI time and then getting to comparing to what is offered in some toher locals, chances are you will see that your idea is not so great. Let alone all the downside risk you expose yourself to financially as well. Also, probably just working your local single talent pool augmented with some local pros will leave you far ahead in the long run.

If you truly want to have LTR relationship, then find someone who makes the same kind of money as you and you have a real intellectual connection with as well as physical. If all you want to do is bounce little 18 year olds up and down on your dick every day with not much financial downside, then move to Asia. I kind of favor that last strategy myself.

I've come to the conclusion that disaster in life is usually absolute. The other day I received in the mail a letter from the IRS about backtaxes due, then I got a ticket for doing over 100 mph on the highway, etc.

In addition, many of my friends have seen many worse consequences such as slipping on a rock, hitting his head and then death itself. I've known people with cancer, etc...

Here is a story of one my friends. My friend was promoted to a VP level position. He moved his entire family and worked day/night/weekends. After 9 months of grinding away and personal sacrifice, they finally asked him to step down. Two steps lower and back to middle-management feeding him degrading tasks....

My point is that there is no way to truly avoid disaster, it more or less finds you in the end. Its not like Im going on these mongering trips every other month because I do have certain goals and responsibilities.

So if eventually Im going to find disaster and combine that with the fact that I cant go on these trips monthly, it certainly sounds inviting to have one of these chicas bouncing up and down on my dick.

Certainly someone will take my money one day whether it be the IRS, the Highway Patrol or what have you.

Getting laid, its a simple goal and such a great way to smile especially when disaster is a certainty in life. ;)

Let me tune in to that video of Charmane again real quick to validate my thesis. Oh man, imagine waking up with her in the bed these last 10 years. I do have a few other favorites on the realitykings website besides Charmane though.

Tommorrow I talk with a guy about an enterprise where if successful my next stop will be Boston. It sure would be nice to experience those cold Boston nights with a chica whether it be a 18 year old Columbian or an 18 year old Filipina.

By the way, I have been out with such women as partners at some big accounting firms, a doctor, consultants, etc. They are always under a lot of stress and the sex never seemed that good. Stinky pussy all over the place because the stress makes it stink. When they are at work, their personality is so typical Type A and thats the attitude they bring home with them. I've known plenty of six-seven figure chicks still single in their late 30s-early 40s with no hope to get married because of their personality.


(Message edited by Portege on April 01, 2008)

The biggest problem I see is that of course you realize that your hot little sweetie comes complete with an extended family of about 75 relatives in tow. All of whom have a host of very real problems that you are in the position to solve.

Then there is the issue of US marriage laws that are openly hostile to you and almost unconditionally accommodating to any whim your sweetie may develop in the future. When you marry in this country you quite literately sign your financial future over to your wife. Marriage law is ugly in this country.

Here is a test. Go to any city with a known large Filipno population(San Diego, Daly City, San Jose, Modesto, etc.). Go to the nearest Costco and take a look at any Filipina over 28 years old. If you can find one that isnt at least 40lbs overweight or is thin with leather skin and a simian face then you win the prize. Filipinas are the only Asians that like to eat more than they like to fuck and it usually catches up with them. Yeah, you will hear guys saying their wife is still sexy after 30 years old...blah, blah blah...it's bullshit.

Yeah what Sancho says.

Also no matter how good the pussy is, it will get boring eventually. And if the rest of the relationship isn't stimulating you are likely to grow resentful and find yourself fucked in the position Sancho describes.Also watching all that damn porn is sure to rot your brain. Living with her everyday is not going to be the fantasy you see in them videos.

If your life ambition is to bounce as much young tight pussy on your cock as possible (hey I am superficial and don't find anything wrong with that goal), then your course of action is way suboptimal. If marrying some young 18 year old pinay is your prescription on how to get through your day to day grind. IMHO you would be better off rethinking your day to day grind. And perhaps you can try and find a different course that is more fulfilling?

Basically, what you are proposing is going to set yourself up with some large log run life complications just to satisfy what is ultimately going to be a rather short lenghtof pleasure. It's sucks that America currently is such a place that having a young mistress is only a privelage that only the very wealthy can enjoy.

Question for the financial experts out there. If this guy were to bring back a LBFM how much protection would a prenuptial agreement provide him?

401k accounts, real assets such as homes, autos, existing retirement accounts etc. My understanding is that she has no right to existing assets. Only assets shared in course of marriage.

RG.

Guys hunting for wives in the mongering world are destined for complete failure. It doesn't work. Hookers make bad wives, mongers make bad husbands. She'll sign the papers, be a good girl during the K1 interview, be the happiest LBFM when she gets off the plane stateside. Hell picks up within a few weeks, and your only salve is the fact that she'll gladly divorce you once her green card arrives in two years. Of course she'll take as much as she can in the split, and you will then know that LBFMs are best left in the PI.

Rule #1: Never get married.

Rule #2: Filipinas almost always explode in girth and weight in their late 20's, especially the well-fed ones grazing in American pastures.

Charmane needs to stay trim to get work as a porn star. She is not a valid representation of the reality you would confront in this particular department. I live near one of the largest Filipino populations in the US - trust me, I am very familiar with rule #2 above.

Roadglide
She'll get a lawyer too say that she did not understand what she was signing. Language problem and all that .

As for community property - been through it twice. Yes it's only what was accumulated during the marriage . Includes new deposits or growth in 401 K ,pension fund etc and increase in value of house etc.

as for divorce, the bitch is only entitled to the gain of assets during the marriage. pre marital assets....no....similar to what the russians would say....toughsky shitsky....

if you were to inherit money....after you are married....it must be kept seperate, once it is co-mingled with marital assets, she is entitled to HALF. so keep it in a seperate account with only your name....

as for the future girth....buy her a treadmill for her 25th birthday....

I think one of the keys to a sucssessful prenup is to have it translated in writing to her language as well, before signing, however there is no key to avoiding the huge legal bill you can be stuck with in defending the prenup. The court can stick you with hers and yours. This also doesn't account for the misery that divorce will bring to your life and god forbid the child support. The real key is not to marry. Trips are cheaper, better and you can change girls at will.

Pre-nup are not etched in stone, a good lawyer will eat a pre-nup for lunch. It will come down to who the judges believes.

State to state the laws and rulings are different. In Illinois my friend won his prenup argument, however the battle took three years and cost Three Hundred Thousand in attorneys fees. He ended up paying for his attorney and the Russian ex-wife, even though the prenup was upheld. As usual in divorce the attorneys were the real winners.

Even if you have a pre-nup that stands up in court, you still can't protect current or future earnings and the court IS going to be heavily biased towards your sweetie and against you.

And a Filipina IS defiantly going to want to go about having as many babies as she can get away with as well which further complicates the situation.

You have to be smart about these things fellas...Take your cash off-shore away from US courts. Anything seems to go in the courts around here, so its best to send the money somewhere they cant touch which is either the mattress or in an off-shore account.

We cant even post up a picture in the US of a naked chick's pussy on a website without the gestapo coming to snatch us up in some white van.

I was using www.egold.com for a while until the price of gold started to tank. No longer a safehaven there. Its west indies company;)

On a side note, I looked at Charmane's video from Real Sex Magazine 18 (this was her second video when she was 19 years old and her sister Leah at 20 years old is in there too). Then I compared it with her video on www.realitykings where she is about 28-29 years old.

She seemed a lot more slender and energetic when she was 19. She still looks good, but she seemed to jump up and down on dick with more energy back in the day. In the doggy style position, she was literally backing up with a vengence on Randy West's dick.

Still even at 28-29 she is looking good although I think another 5-10 years and she will be about done if she keeps adding weight.

I figure that most women will add about 30% more weight from 18 to their 30s. If a woman is at 85 lbs then she will probably get to 110 which is still reasonable. If she is 110, however, then that means about 143 which is a little over the top for me.

The Vietnamese chicks keep the longest by the way. I recently fucked a 23 year old Vietnamese chick living in Temecula. Tight pussy, so wet and her body was incredible. However, the Viet chicks are the ones with the teeth of gold. They all drive mercedes and lexuses whether they can afford it or not. This chick was driving a 40k new Lexus and her job was at a nail salon. She then asked if I could pay for her breast job. Very funny, this was the second date and I fucked her once. I said no and after that she seemed to go back with her ex who was probably more willing then I. For shame;)

I think if I or anyone here were to take one of these ladies out of the home country then I believe they should be 18-19 to take advantage of each year of their slender bodies and high energy.

OH Charmane. but not only Charmane, look at Leah Santiago her sister. Either one jumping and hopping on my dick with their hips moving and them backing up doggy style would be such a hot dream. It sure would be nice to experience that night after night over a period of years.

Nope, I wouldnt get tired of it. Not one bit;)

Well researching a marriage decision by watchin porn, ready to go pinay after one trip to AC, and using E-gold to facilitate a move to offshore banking; you have got it all figured out. Not sure why you are asking for advice here? I say go forth with your plan and please give us updates wether good or bad.

MX, you took the words right outta my mouth.

Portege

MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

That's some funny shit. Good April Fool's prank. Now stop talking nonsense and get on with your life.

E

It always amazes me about this particular "advice" phenomenon on CH.

Someone gets an idea in their head. But some little voice in the back of their head is suggesting that maybe it is not the best idea in the world.

They come to the board for advice. The advice is almost always universally against the desired course of action from the original poster with specific examples and sometimes previous experience about why.

Then original poster replies back that they have thought about all that already and have everything figured out. It really boggles the mind. If they have figured it all out in the first place, why bother to ask the question?

BTW, this particular topic has been discussed here ad-nauseum before.

I found Magpie's experience in this thread especially enlightening.

Before You Marry That Filipina...

The OP is trying to reduce cognitive dissonance, and is unable to, thus retreating further into denial, at least at a conscience level.

This MUST be an April Fools post - look at the date/time.

Xen

I'd all but forgotten about this post. How do you find these?!?! lol

Looking forward to our next party in Jtown.

E

Hey Epi:

I specifically remember that thread very well. It made an impression on me. Especially your comments and Magpie's. I also liked the comments from you about posting in a BKK internet cafe at 5am. Do you remember banging that post out?

Ah Jtown. Wish I were there now....

Stand in line with that wish Xen.

Epi, I thought the same thing, but the sad thing is we've seen posts with identical themes dozens of times. The story is the same, just change the handle. That fact lends it credence.

Hehe. This is a common dilemma indeed. . .

Your a single guy, not quite in your 20s (30s-40s-50s+), but you still have responsibilities, aspirations and a career which would prevent you from picking up and moving to a foreign country. Even if you did pick up and move, you might not like it after a while. Some of these third world countries get tiring after a while with some of the in your face poverty and you might have a routine back home that you enjoy rather then living it out in Brazil, Thailand or the Phils.

You try to date around the US but realize that the most readily available female age group is not the ones in their 20s. The overall sex and looks is simply not inspirational among the pool of ladies readily available to you. Most of those women out of their 20s also might have issues, problems, other children, ex-husbands, mental issues, etc.

So your memories turn back to the good times in that third world country where it would not be practical to live, but it seems like a good idea to bring back and why not? Wouldnt it be cool to fuck that young good looking foreign chick every night vs. the other routine? Its just a matter of some paperwork, a good immigration attorney and probably about 10-15 grand before she is in your bed night after night fucking and being a good partner cleaning the house and helping you from day to day...

but wait, there are other unknown issues and variables. What if she takes off or wants to bring her entire family here???

What it boils down to is can't a guy just get laid? hehee

I wonder how that Wall Street guy is doing with his Columbian chick...Im going to Columbia and if I did take someone from one of these countries, then it would be awful tempting if the pictures I see from there are accurate and true to form. A young playboy looking Columbian chick bouncing on the dick who would keep her looks for 10-15 years.

The saga goes on...

Wallstreet, whom I considered a good friend, has all but disappeared. If anyone has info on him, I'd be curious if he's been contacted -- none of his former contact info is working.

IMO, Colombianas have a better shelf life compared to the Pinays -- no self destruct button @ around 22 y.o. for instance. Lots of MILFs in Colombia. But a working gal is a working gal anywhere, and if you thought Pinays were jealous, the Colombianas make Lorena Bobbit look like Mother Teresa. A monger's gotta know they are paying w/ fire on the order of napalm when they decide to buy versus rent.

Portege

What it boils down to is can't a guy just get laid?

Absolutely, and if you're smart you'll only pay cash. Cash. C A S H Plane tix and VISA forms are NOT cash. "Cash" does not begin with the letter "L".

Fucking working girls is just good fun. Fun. F U N Those things should be kept that way. When someone gets serious with a working girl they're asking for, best case scenario, to be chewed up and spit out the other side - worst case, dead or FUBAR.

Xen

I paid 200B/hour to write that lol. I remember when the admins moved this over here from chat and was actually looking for it. Thanks for finding it for me - good stuff.

Jtown - bet you are wishing you took that last night, late night caller up on their offer, eh? lol

M~i

In many ways, new mongers are like teenagers: No one REALLY understands these emotions I'm having for this lady. She's different from ALL the others. No one has loved as MUCH nor as DEEPLY as I have this lady. It's fate. No one can tell me I'm wrong because they're not HERE right NOW. I'm here - now - and this is the very best idea anyone could have and I'm the luckiest person in the world.

Most everyone I know, that enjoys our hobby, has (at one time or another) been kicked in the balls because of the intersection of the above paragraph and the freight train that is reality. The trick is to get your head clear and hop back in the saddle again as soon as possible

E

Here is a little update on the group dynamics last night....

I live in Southern California if you havent figured out yet btw;) hehe

I went out last night to Club V20 in Long Beach. This club is full of young early 20 something year old asian women. There are, of course, young asian guys and other guys that come down to hit on the ladies. The V stands for Vietnamese and the 20 is how much it is to get in.

However, the reality...the truth... is that the young 20-something women slutted out for the night are really there to be hit on by the older more financially well off guys. Their expectation is for a sugar daddy type to wine, dine them, etc. I've actually picked up from there a few times. The last one was a fine Vietnamese 23 year old who lived out somewhere in Temecula that I banged for two nights until I broke the news that I wasnt going to be paying for her breast job. She even said that she would let me do whatever I wanted including anal to drop 5k on her breasts. Well, Im not into this type of legalized prostitution. Not at all;)

Its funny because Im far from being in my 20s, I have a few grey hairs and my demeanor is decidely older where I talk about business quite a bit. I've been on Yahoo personals hitting on some ladies to receive the reply back that Im just too old.

However, this older demeanor is music to the Viet and Chinese chicks ears. If you have ever been through westminster, then you can see parking lots full of Lexuses. They love the dollar and know that I have it.

There was a young Chinese chick who Im going to take out later that I met at V20 last night. Very skinny and goes to USC. The funny part is that the police came because her young boyfriend got into a fight with her because he saw me kissing her. Whoops. At 4am, the cops hauled off the young guy and left me at the top of the parking garage in long beach making out with her while her friend stared on. The police were not going to mess with your friendly neighborhood well off slightly greying business dude.

The moral of the story is that the dollar predominates and attracts all these women whether they be in a foreign country or right here. However, you have to know how to control the situation so they are just looking at your dollar rather then taking it.

I can say with some disgrace that the entire escapade last night cost me over a hundred bucks and a date with this chick tonight will be more.

My opinion, as a member of the getting old has been population, is that if you take from the foreign land or take from the US shores it doesnt matter. They all are seeking Ben Franklin. One way or the other they just might get it, but I do have a need to get laid and thats primarily the thought process here;)

The cold hard reality is that everyone seems to be after money and few are after actual love. Even my mother sheepishly admitted to me once that she married my father because of the dollar. As for myself, I dont have a cold heart, but love, marriagte and children never seemed to be part of overall vocabulary. My main driving force has been to get some constant sex from some chicks of the soldier's age.

The purpose behind these foreign marriage's is to keep us greying has beens at a high degree of sex without having to resort to such places as V20 and so that we can concentrate on our careers/business life. I assume Wall Street's process was the same as my own.

Now where is the website where I can go get the cheapest tickets for Columbia...

(Message edited by Portege on April 06, 2008)

Since you were wondering whatever happened with Wallstreet's situation, it would serve as a perfect warning to you: it went bad. Very bad from what I heard.

Granted, it sounds damn good in theory, however the reality is not always so rosey.

I know many bar girls and non-bar girls from PI who've come here in US with guys, some have worked-out excellent. Some have worked-out OK, others not so good.

Many of the arguments are over money, sending it to her family, once you send money every brother, sister,uncle, auntie, cousin, will come-out of the wood work with some emergency to collect they're share of the family's new found fortune.

If you don't send, the girl could become angry , not understanding why you don't love her enough and there goes your wonderful boom-boom sessions.

I khow a few guys who are happily married to super-models, with a couple of kids, and loving every minute of it.

From my experiences, I can only talk from my experiences, most of the times it hasn't worked-out long term is the guy tires of the girl, tires of supporting her family, wants to end it. And the girl is crushed.



If you plan on giving it a shot, a word of advice, K-1 fiance visa's are simply and easy to get, you don't need a immigration attorney, nor do you need 10-15K.

A K-1 fiance visa will cost you, total, including hiring someone in PI to help your girl about $570. Plus some chump changes for travel expenses and what ever you give your girl to support her while you apply.

Same with Brazilians. They all want you to help their mother.

MM

If you're going to do this make sure to MARRY AN ORPHAN

E

Here is a stateside night mare. One of my coworkers is going through a divorce right now, he was married for 5 or 7 years.

When he married this woman she had a kid from a previous marriage and was/is collecting child support from this guy. Now she is trying to collect child support from my buddy. This broad is trying to get child support from two guys for the same kid.

Is that fucked up or what. Mr. family law, Blazers feel free to chime in on this one.

RG

RG:

I don't know about California, but my ex-wife tried that on me in Illinois. The attempt was short lived, she knew that the judge would laugh her out of court. I pointed out to her with child support would be visitation as well as rights in determination as to education, health and welfare. My ex-wife was in her own class and I think some of her attempt towards child support from me as a step father was aimed at getting me to ignore as a marital asset the college fund, which was up toward one hundred thousand dollars.

Roadglide, I'm no expert but I wouldn't be suprised if it went through. When you get down to it, in a court of law, a man is only an ATM. No rights, only responsibilities. Welcome to america. The welfare of the child is more important than the man.

Moral: never get involved with a single mother.

She can only get support from the new husband if he legally adopted the child and the former father had his parental rights terminated.

Blazers; That's sorta like what I was thinking was the law, but with this being California and a divorce case, I was afraid that common sense would not matter.

RG.

"If you're going to do this make sure to MARRY AN ORPHAN"

Ha ha ha best monger advice in ages... ha.

Protege.... You need to travel more and just enjoy the flavors in life.

GL

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