Posted by Matiz on October 25, 2000 at 13:28:54:
In Reply to: Re: "Chica Jealousy" posted by KRICO on October 25, 2000 at 11:28:55:
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"Chica jealousy" comes in many shapes and sizes. A small number actually do have genuine feelings for the guy and get jealous just like any other woman. For some, the "jealousy" they exhibit is what they think you expect from a favorita. For others, it's not so much directed at the guy as a person, but as a customer--it's turf protection (he's my customer, sister, not yours). For many it's also involved with face-saving. If Chica A's friends know that you're a regular of hers, she won't be happy when you trot upstairs with Chica B, while all Chica A's friends are standing around snickering at her. Or, as in the case of my favorite lady, it may be a complex, difficult-to-predict combination of all of these. In which case, bring your "A" game and be prepared to grovel a lot.
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