Posted by LUVDOG on December 24, 2000 at 11:42:35:
In Reply to: Re: "FAVORITE" OR CLIENT ? " VERY LONG POST. posted by Matiz on December 24, 2000 at 09:47:56:
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Matiz you have just earned yourself a dinner one of these days. I think you understand my point to all this. "while at the same time realizing that on any given day with any given chica, you're a wallet on two legs and are probably going to be viewed as just another customer. I think you're dead right about trust being the key factor for these ladies. It's a very high hurdle to clear and I'm not sure most guys, myself included, are up to the task." Actually, you are a wallet with three legs. I do believe a lot of the jealousy is not warranted because there is no trust. Until that comes into play you are a client nothing more. " the difference between a working chica and regular chicas, that's one of those profound questions I always ask myself driving back from TJ. It goes to the very heart of how men define themselves and how we view women and sex. When you come up with the answer, let me know." The answer that keeps coming up in my mind every time I ask myself this question is the plain and simple fact, money. It may not be the right answer but I am still waiting for one better. " Second, what she does now or has done in the past with other guys doesn't concern me in the slightest. We all do what we think we have to do in life and then live with the consequences. The only thing that matters is what she feels about you. If that's genuine, then I can deal with all the rest." That is the only way any relationship is going work especially when you are talking about a women who has worked in the zone. It is not a life she is proud of or likes. Granted there may be some who are proud of it and like it. I hope they get something out of it for later in life. That is not something I would hold against them under the circumstances. Thank you for the response. Luvdog |
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