Posted by Matiz on December 24, 2000 at 09:47:56:
In Reply to: "FAVORITE" OR CLIENT ? " VERY LONG POST. posted by LUVDOG on December 24, 2000 at 00:06:32:
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Luvdog, I agree. Anyone who "leaves his heart at the border" might as well stay at home and jack off. They run the risk of missing the best part of the whole experience. On the other hand, I'm not an advocate of wearing your heart on your sleeve either. What's left is walking the razor's edge--being open to the situation, being receptive to the possibilities that arise with each chica, while at the same time realizing that on any given day with any given chica, you're a wallet on two legs and are probably going to be viewed as just another customer. I think you're dead right about trust being the key factor for these ladies. It's a very high hurdle to clear and I'm not sure most guys, myself included, are up to the task. As to your question about what is the difference between a working chica and regular chicas, that's one of those profound questions I always ask myself driving back from TJ. It goes to the very heart of how men define themselves and how we view women and sex. When you come up with the answer, let me know. I'm still working on it. I only know two things. First, the differences that exist are more superficial than real, especially when it comes to actual relationships with men. Second, what she does now or has done in the past with other guys doesn't concern me in the slightest. We all do what we think we have to do in life and then live with the consequences. The only thing that matters is what she feels about you. If that's genuine, then I can deal with all the rest. |
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