Posted by raiders on March 22, 2001 at 22:48:09:
In Reply to: great advice and... posted by TJResearcher on March 22, 2001 at 20:11:52:
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Great, thanks for now telling us that your in your late 20's, tall, you have black hair, and a cute smile 8-), and nice shape? I would now say that about 99.999999% of the guys including myself would have offered...uh..hmm...a private tour around TJ anytime of the day or nite ;-). I assume that since you state that you have an escort to help you in the zone, then that must mean your husband is in the mainland or far from where you are conducting your research? So please tell, isn't it difficult to conduct a research since you are living far from the person who you are in love with? Don't you ever have the urge to 'date' a gentleman in Tijuana and i'm not talking for research purposes, but for companionship? Men will be men and women will be women and it just surprises me that you have not talked about meeting gentlemen in your research since after all you are surrounded by 'men' on a daily basis. What type of guy are you attracted to? Is there some type of inner feeling that you have deep inside you that perhaps this research is secondary and that your primary rational for this on going 'research' is merely an excuse for you to seek an emotional rescue of the heart? Meaning that perhaps even though you are married you still have this inner urge to experience life and perhaps getting married early you did not have the chance? In the research you have conducted, why did you stray into the 'gay' side of the clubs? Didn't you want to research the 'normal' side of the life styles of the working GIRLS and not the pre-op working he/shes? When the guy grabbed your rear in the club and you did not tell your escort right away and waited until you left the club, that gave me a clue that he 'feels' for you, is that your husband in real life? Trust me, if I was your husband and that happened I would kick his ass and then ask questions later, since you waited, and if he is not your husband, do you feel for him? Are you developing an emotional bound towards the guy taking care of you? Are you finding out other things about yourself that you did not realize years or months ago yet now, you are experiencing life in a total different way much like the labratory rats mazes being switched? Even the most bright, most gifted, most complex thinkers have normal human traits. Never assume you will never fall in love (again), never assume that being subjected to certain societies, that it won't effect your thinking or your emotions. Contrar my dear, if you are human, you too have probably developed 'feelings' for certain people you have been in contact with. Too bad none of us on this board has not met you yet (yet I still think I have) I think that meeting one of us you probably would not only enjoyed probing our mind for your research, yet we also would have enjoyed probing your mind, asking you questions, conducting our own research as to how all of this 'research' has effected you. Who knows, perhaps one day one of us will come in contact with you, wouldn't that be ironic and talk about turning things around. The researcher being researced ;-). We would then write a thesis on our research researcher ;-). Also, perhaps you have not ventured into all the areas that WE know of, what you should do is get in contact with Lakers/Juan and take him up on one of his tours so that you can experience for hand knowledge of what Tijuana has to offer. I'm sure his will be a gentleman and also, knowing him, he would keep his tour with you confidential. Before I go, could you let us know how much longer you plan on conducting your research and also what personal experiences have you gained regardless good or bad in Tijuana and on this message board.
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