Posted by kendricks on May 12, 2001 at 13:32:35:
In Reply to: Married (and "Taken") Mongers posted by Aardvark on May 12, 2001 at 11:00:34:
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It is easy, and convenient, to draw lines around one's own behavior, and condemn everyone outside of those lines as immoral. Some, for example, would argue that anyone who exploits economically disadvantaged women by using them for sex is a "bad person". (I do not buy into this argument, so there is no point in arguing it with me. I am just pointing out that I do not expect to see aardvark advancing this argument, either.) I will, however, conveniently note that aardvark condemns screwing chicas when involved in a committed relationship. THIS is the capital sin that prevents a monger from "getting on any soapboxes and preaching about any wrongdoings of a chica or monger." Which is worse - a married man who discreetly visits adult hookers on occasion, or a single man who knowingly has unprotected sex with a 14 year old while he is infected with an std? Apparently, Saint Aardvark is qualified to have an opinion on this topic, but I am not. As far as telling the chicas the truth about being married - why would I lie to them about this? They really don't care, and I actually like having conversations with (some) of them. I do feel for your amiga, and that is a sad situation. I don't see how this has anything to do with a guy like me, though, who *never* establishes long-term or emotionally involved relations with the chicas. They know I am just there for a good time and a little diversity, which they are quite eager to supply. Kendricks
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