Posted by LUVDOG on December 20, 2000 at 18:24:19:
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Mongers, my better judgement tells me to stay out of this conversation. I have decided to be stupid. I currently have an apartment in TJ, which I share it with three working girls (from one of the famous places that I will not name). One can be considered my girlfriend, as she does not charge me for sex, does not ask me for money, and that will be with me any time I ask. The other two for the record are just friends. I am reading a lot about "favorites" lately and am a little confused if you are meaning they are your favorite girl in bed or if they are to be considered your girlfriends. In my twenty years of visiting the bars of TJ I have had two girlfriends and countless "favorites" (good screws). Noticing there is a lot of talk about heartbreaks and jealousy I was wondering what the true definition is. I listen to them all talk on a regular basis, as I am down there three to five days a week. The game faces that have been mentioned are for real. They are there to make money and there are very few of the women that are serious about the clients. They will treat you special and be very nice to you even go out of the zone with you. Nevertheless, the bottom line is you are still a client. I have been with my girl for about a year. The first six months I was still a client that was just getting special treatment. Although I did not have to pay all the time, I always knew when she needed money because she would ask for it. About six months ago things changed. She no longer wanted me to be in the bar to watch her work. She no longer asked for money. The big shocker was when she bought me a gift that cost over three hundred dollars. I have noticed the difference. I think now I can honestly distinguish between client and novio. I have seen a few favorable posts about her which means she is either lying to me or lying to other (of course, I hope other). I guess my real question is when mentioning "favorite", what are you saying "girlfriend" or "good in the bed and good company outside of the bed? I see a lot of post that say this is a bad thing to fall in love or be involved with a working girl and maybe that is true. My one prior experience was good but not at a good time for either of us. Even with the bad timing, it lasted three years. With the current, timing is a little better. I know what she is working for, I know and have met her family (going to meet them again in a few weeks), and I am hoping she is smart enough to know when to get out of this business. She has told me numberous times she hates what she does so I think she will know when shes done. There was also mention of how normal this type of work is in Mexico, I can tell you that for her family it is almost a family business. Her mom is still part owner in a bar (not in TJ). Her mom worked the bars, her older sisters worked the bars, and now she is doing the same. What did they get out of it? All of them have housed that are build and paid for and money to carry them for some years to come. How many of us will be able to say that before we reach 50. Hell how many girls working here in the states will be able to say that? Because of the situation I am in I find this a very interesting topic. It is not aimed at upsetting anyone. If you take it that way oh well. I would be interested in hearing a few responses to the question.
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